Have you ever found yourself behind on the scoreboard and felt the match slowly slipping away?

Not necessarily because your opponent was playing unbelievable tennis. Not because you were completely outplayed. But because, somewhere inside, you had already started accepting defeat.

Maybe not consciously.

Maybe not through a clear statement.

But through small thoughts that quietly entered your mind.

“It’s probably over.”

“Today just isn’t my day.”

“I can’t find any solutions.”

“I would need a miracle to come back.”

What makes this so important is that many matches are actually lost at that exact moment. Not when the score becomes difficult. Not when you lose a break. Not when you drop a set. But when you stop believing that the match is still alive.

This is why Diana Shnaider’s comments after her incredible comeback against Aryna Sabalenka at Roland Garros deserve attention. Down a set and a double break against the world No. 1, in a situation that looked almost hopeless, Shnaider didn’t talk about some magical tactical adjustment or a revolutionary technical solution. Instead, she described something much simpler. She kept telling herself to stay there, keep fighting, and continue trying to win one point at a time without focusing too much on how far away she was from the final result.

At first glance, it sounds simple.

In reality, it contains one of the most important mental skills in tennis.

When players fall behind, the brain naturally starts calculating. It begins looking too far ahead. It starts measuring the distance between where we are and where we want to be. If we’re down 1-4, we no longer see the next point. We see three games that need to be recovered. If we’re down a set, we stop seeing the present moment. We see a mountain that needs to be climbed. And the bigger that mountain appears, the more the nervous system starts convincing us that the situation is impossible.

The problem is that tennis is never recovered all at once.

Nadal never recovered four games.

Djokovic doesn’t recover four games.

Alcaraz doesn’t recover four games.

They recover one point.

Then another.

Then another.

And that distinction changes everything.

Because when the mind focuses on the final outcome, it often becomes overwhelmed. But when it returns to the immediate task, it suddenly finds energy again. This is one of the fundamental principles of performance psychology. Attention creates quality. When attention is trapped by the problem, performance drops. When attention returns to action, performance improves.

Shnaider’s comeback against Sabalenka is fascinating precisely because of this. At one stage, the match seemed completely under the control of the world No. 1, who had won the first set and built a 4-1 lead in the second. From the outside, it looked almost finished. Yet something shifted. Shnaider kept competing. She kept playing. She kept staying present. And little by little, the pressure started moving to the other side of the net.

This happens far more often than people realize.

Some matches change because a player suddenly finds an incredible shot.

But many more change because a player stops obsessing about the result and simply returns to doing their job.

Many tennis players believe confidence creates comebacks.

I often think the opposite is true.

Small, correct actions create confidence.

When you win one difficult point.

When you hold one difficult service game.

When you stay present despite the scoreboard.

When you stop looking for a miracle and simply return to competing.

Confidence slowly begins rebuilding itself.

Jimmy Connors once said that a tennis match is not over until you shake hands at the net. It sounds simple, but it contains an enormous truth. Many players retire mentally long before the match is actually finished. Their body remains on the court, but their mind has already stopped believing.

And that is where matches truly die.

Not when the scoreboard says you are behind.

But when you stop competing.

Perhaps the most important lesson from Shnaider’s remarkable victory is this: you do not need to know how you are going to come back.

You do not need to see the entire path.

You do not need to suddenly feel full of confidence.

You simply need to stay in the match long enough to give the match a chance to change.

Because something surprising happens in tennis every single week.

Many players lose because they become convinced it is over.

Others win because they continue behaving as if it isn’t.

And that difference can completely change a career.

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Federico Coppini
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