There are moments in sport that you never forget. One of them is when a tennis player manages to do something that seems impossible, to the point of making you exclaim: “That’s out of this world!” We’ve seen it with Carlos Alcaraz many times: unreal stretching shots, recoveries that look like they came out of a video game, smiles that turn the court into a stage of pure magic.
But the real question for us—parents, amateur players, or fans—is this: how much of our daily tennis remains “stuck” in normality? And how much, instead, dares, risks, and tries to amaze?
THE ART OF BREAKING THE ROUTINE
Most club players tend to repeat the same things over and over: same warm-up, same mistakes, same conversations courtside. It’s as if there’s a pre-set script: playing just to “keep the ball in play,” without ever trying to surprise.
Alcaraz, on the other hand, reminds us that tennis is also creativity. It doesn’t mean we should hit impossible winners every rally, but that we should train ourselves to add something new: an unexpected serve & volley, a drop shot after a long rally, a change of pace.
As Roger Federer used to say:
👉 “If you always play the same way, in the long run you become predictable. It’s variety that makes tennis fascinating.”
A MESSAGE FOR PARENTS
Dear parents, here’s an important lesson for you too. Often, kids’ tennis is lived with anxiety: the score, the ranking, the fear of mistakes. But if a young player grows up thinking only about not making errors, they’ll hardly bring out their creativity and personality.
Rafael Nadal put it clearly:
👉 “To become a champion, you must learn to accept mistakes and not be afraid to take risks.”
Your role is not to push your child to “avoid mistakes,” but to encourage them to try, to dare, to find that spark that will make them fall in love with the game.
PRACTICAL EXAMPLES TO BREAK “NORMALITY”
Here are a few simple exercises you can introduce into your training—whether you’re an amateur, a kid dreaming big, or a parent who wants to stimulate their child:
The “out of this world” point
Every set, challenge yourself (or your child) to attempt at least one spectacular shot: a drop shot, a sudden passing shot, a net approach. It doesn’t matter if it fails—it matters that training creativity becomes a habit.
Train your smile
It sounds trivial, but it’s not. Alcaraz always does it: he smiles after an incredible point, but also after a mistake. This attitude breaks tension and turns pressure into positive energy.
The “no points” match
Try playing with a friend without keeping score. The goal isn’t to win, but to enjoy experimenting with new shots. This exercise frees the mind and stimulates unexpected solutions.
THE HIDDEN LESSON
Tennis is not just technique or fitness. It’s a life laboratory. When we dare to do something different on the court, we are also training ourselves to face life with more courage and creativity.
Novak Djokovic sums it up like this:
👉 “The most important thing is to believe you can go beyond your limits, even when no one else believes it.”
So next time you step on court, ask yourself: do you want to be predictable or do you want to surprise? Do you want to remain stuck in routine or attempt a shot that’s “out of this world”?
CONCLUSION
Carlos Alcaraz shows us that tennis can be art, emotion, and surprise. You don’t need to be a top player to learn his lesson: you just need to bring a bit of that creative madness into your training, your weekend tournaments, your matches with friends.
The truth is, we can all live moments that make us feel “out of this world.” It’s not just about winning, but about leaving a mark—even a small one—on the court and in life.
👉 So the question is: when will be your next chance to surprise everyone—including yourself?
by Federico
